Last week, Tracy McKay published a remarkable memoir entitled The Burning Point: A Memoir of Addiction, Destruction, Love, Parenting, Survival, and Hope. I think it is a game changer. Full disclosure: I was one of the main editors of By Common Consent Press on this project. Even fuller disclosure: I became one of the main editors for this book because, the second I heard about it, I knew that it would be a game changer. Here’s why.
In the first place, The Burning Point is a beautifully written memoir. Those who have followed Tracy on her own blog, Dandelion Mama or as a regular contributor to BCC, know that she is a graceful, lyrical writer with a profound moral depth and a varied body of experience. It is a good book.
But it is also an important book. For one thing, it deals head on with the problem of opioid addiction, which was at the root of the family crisis that Tracy narrates. As this becomes a major epidemic in the United States–and make no mistake about it, it is becoming a major epidemic in the United States–books like Tracy’s will become a more and more important part of the solution.
It is also a book about being a “welfare mother,” another phenomenon that is increasingly important to our public discourse. And it tells the story of a woman returning to school to get an education–and of the important and supportive role that the LDS community played in the lives of a family of fairly recent converts to the Church. And, finally, it is a story in which the Mormon Internet Community itself plays an important part, as Tracy was only able to complete school through a scholarship created by the Feminist Mormon Housewives blog.
As I said, I think that this book can be a game changer. And, if it is, it will join a long and distinguished tradition of Mormon women’s memoirs that have changed the way that Latter-day Saints and the rest of the world interact. I can think of no category of Mormon writing in the past 50 years that has been as influential in shaping the national and international conversation about the LDS Church. Here are a few examples:
House of Many Rooms, by Rodello Hunter (1965): This quiet, simple memoir of growing up in Utah at the turn of the 19th century was an unlikely bestseller. But it was a bestseller for Knopf in 1965 and introduced a generation of readers to Mormonism in a way that sharply diverged from both the fictional (mainly Western) and nonfictional (mainly exposé) faire of the 1960s. It made Mormons seem friendly, loving, and kind of cuddly instead of scary and threatening.
Goodbye, I Love You, by Carol Lynn Pearson (1986): Carol Lynn Pearson was already an established writer in the Mormon market when she wrote this book about her ex husband, who had left her to pursue relationships with men, returning to her home after being diagnosed with AIDS. At a time when AIDS was still unfamiliar to most people, Pearson’s memoir highlighted the folly of telling gay men that they should marry women to “become heterosexual.” And it advocated for a more compassionate and nuanced LDS understanding of same sex attraction long before this became a major issue in the Church.
Leaving Home, by Mary Bradford (1987): Published in 1987, Leaving Home collected the personal essays that Bradford had contributed to Dialogue since the mid-1960s. These essays, like the book itself, largely created the genre of the Mormon personal essay, of which Bradford’s work is both the best example and the foundational canon. These essays did more than just about anything I can think of to give Mormon women a voice by giving them a set of tools for self-expression that was firmly rooted in Mormon history and practice, but also subtly subversive in its implications for how Mormon women would learn to shape their own narratives in ways not previously possible.
Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place, by Terry Tempest Williams (1991): In my own teaching career at one public and two private universities, Refuge is the only Mormon-themed book that I have taught and seen my colleagues teach, as an undergraduate literature text. This remarkable book weaves together two narrative strands—the flooding of the Bear River Migratory Bird Refuge and the death of Terry’s mother from cancer—to create a compelling story of wholeness, family, place, and community. From an academic perspective, it is one of the most significant works of Mormon literature ever published. And it has also touched the lives of thousands of people confronting the deaths of their loved ones.
Secret Ceremonies, by Deborah Laake (1993): “How I left the Mormon Church” memoirs are a substantial subcategory of Mormon Women’s memoirs, including such classics as Ann Eliza Young’s Wife No. 19, Sonja Johnson’s From Housewife to Heretic, AND Martha Beck’s Leaving the Saints. In all of these, though, Laake’s stands out as 1) a major (and somewhat unexpected) bestseller that became something of a media phenomenon; and 2) a book that discussed Mormon temple worship in ways that no bestseller ever had before. Predictably, it combined with a resurgence of Mormon-themed genre fiction in the early 1990s—mainly mystery novels and true-crime books—to make Mormons seem weirder than they had for years.
Embraced by the Light, by Betty Eadie (1994): This near-death-experience book explicitly Mormon book. It does not mention Momronism per se in the text. But it was marketed in Utah with an insert telling readers that Eadie was, in fact, a Mormon and that she confirmed many elements of her faith in her brief glimpse of the afterlife. And a small book publisher, Aspen Books, first published the book. Millions of people—including lots of Mormons—bought and read the book, making it a runaway bestseller. But the real influence that it had on Mormon letters was in the way that it propelled Aspen Books into the spotlight and allowed them to play a major role in the modest renaissance of Mormon literature that occurred during the 1990s.
Book of Mormon Girl, by Joanna Brooks (2012): When it was first published, Book of Mormon Girl was something radically new and important: a memoir by a smart, accomplished Mormon woman who was absolutely committed to her faith but unwilling to allow anybody else to define that faith for her. This provided a model for many people to break through the “in-or-out” dichotomy that had always constrained their relationship to Mormonism and construct a variety of third-way positions that honored and cherished Mormonism but insisted on having a say in the definition of their own faith.
I could go on and on and on. There are thousands of books in the category of Mormon Women’s Memoir, and, perhaps more than any other kind of Mormon Literature, these books have had an enormous influence on the ways that people inside and outside of the Church understand our faith. It is this important and influential tradition that Tracy McKay has now become an integral part of, and I can’t think of a better place for a writer to be.